It is good that ancient in China,people think the marriage is " to shut two surnamed,go with the ancestral temple of a ruling of the thing,leave in order to continue later age too ",so main purpose of marriage for wide family,descendants in great numbers,used for safeguarding and improving family's fame and prestige and position at the same time.Because it is a member that the marriage will increase a woman of the different surname for the family,the bridegroom's family is very rigorous in choosing the wife,so as not to bring disgrace to family's sound,the family marries the wife and marries the wife more importantly more than individual far.The marriage is considered as the important affair of the family,and impersonal private business,the love among men and women can not be regarded as primary basis of the marriage.In the west,the marriage is the home of the young men and women love,the purpose to conclude marriage is for letting the feature of both sides kept with each other,it is for better growing It is good that ancient in China,people think the marriage is " to shut two surnamed,go with the ancestral temple of a ruling of the thing,leave in order to continue later age too ",so main purpose of marriage for wide family,descendants in great numbers,used for safeguarding and improving family's fame and prestige and position at the same time.Because it is a member that the marriage will increase a woman of the different surname for the family,the bridegroom's family is very rigorous in choosing the wife,so as not to bring disgrace to family's sound,the family marries the wife and marries the wife more importantly more than individual far.The marriage is considered as the important affair of the family,and impersonal private business,the love among men and women can not be regarded as primary basis of the marriage.In the west,the marriage is the home of the young men and women love,the purpose to conclude marriage is for letting the feature of both sides kept with each other,it is for better growing