Talking too much, what shoud I do?

When I was a child, I was introverted. All my surroundings always said, " This guy doesn't love to talk, he's introverted." After growing up, I found that language is used to communicate with other people, if we don't talk, how could people exchange their thoughts? I usually speak something out without thinking, which troubles others much. A "Good talker" is good or not? Sometimes I can't control my mouth, I can't stop myself when a conversation is started, I always regret for some useless I have said. -"He that talks much errs much." I have made the same mistake by several times. I always say too much, even some words shouldn't be spoken. How can I control my mouth and to be wordless?

LZ翻译如上,说实话如果这段话是你自己写给自己的那我倒是可以给你点建议.

首先,我们必须认清话多的原因及如何才能改善.话多不是“健谈”,相反话很多的人往往不招人喜欢.话多的原因不是因为“控制不住自己的嘴巴”,而是不清楚什么时候该说以及说什么.换个角度说是没有分析清楚自身的环境,不能根据当即的处境进行精准的判断从而说出该说的话.总而言之就是不够理性.
知道原因了才能继续去改正.平时要养成多思考的习惯,多看书会帮助你“控制你的嘴巴”.另外,多注意用文字总结.写得多了,说得自然就少了.
从你上面这段文字来看你语言的功底不是很好.层次混乱,句意庸冗.想在以后与人交往中表现的有“深度”就先从基本功抓起吧!

希望能帮到你! Talking too much, what shoud I do?

When I was a child, I was introverted. All my surroundings always said, " This guy doesn't love to talk, he's introverted." After growing up, I found that language is used to communicate with other people, if we don't talk, how could people exchange their thoughts? I usually speak something out without thinking, which troubles others much. A "Good talker" is good or not? Sometimes I can't control my mouth, I can't stop myself when a conversation is started, I always regret for some useless I have said. -"He that talks much errs much." I have made the same mistake by several times. I always say too much, even some words shouldn't be spoken. How can I control my mouth and to be wordless?

LZ翻译如上,说实话如果这段话是你自己写给自己的那我倒是可以给你点建议.

首先,我们必须认清话多的原因及如何才能改善.话多不是“健谈”,相反话很多的人往往不招人喜欢.话多的原因不是因为“控制不住自己的嘴巴”,而是不清楚什么时候该说以及说什么.换个角度说是没有分析清楚自身的环境,不能根据当即的处境进行精准的判断从而说出该说的话.总而言之就是不够理性.
知道原因了才能继续去改正.平时要养成多思考的习惯,多看书会帮助你“控制你的嘴巴”.另外,多注意用文字总结.写得多了,说得自然就少了.
从你上面这段文字来看你语言的功底不是很好.层次混乱,句意庸冗.想在以后与人交往中表现的有“深度”就先从基本功抓起吧!

希望能帮到你!