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In the daily family education, parents often intentionally or unintentionally played two different roles -- red and white face, seemingly a pull, a strict broad, a hard and soft, husband and wife cooperate tacit understanding, but for the children's moral cultivation is very adverse. No matter which parent is too harsh or too loose, if the child 's education process exposed contradiction, will bring about the side effect. Even if the other children have undeserved place, also do not tune, not to differences in exposure in front of the children, but afterwards coordination, otherwise it will reduce the education effect, is not conducive to children's growth.
在日常的家庭教育中,父母往往有意或无意地扮演了两种不同的角色——红脸与白脸,表面上看似一打一拉、一严一宽、一硬一软,夫妻配合默契,实则对孩子的道德品质培育极为不利.无论父母哪一方过于严厉或过于放纵,若在孩子的教育过程中暴露出矛盾,都会带来副作用.即使发现对方教育子女有不当之处,也不要唱反调,不要把分歧暴露在孩子面前,而是事后再协调,否则会降低教育效果,不利于孩子成长.
In the daily family education, parents often intentionally or unintentionally played two different roles -- red and white face, seemingly a pull, a strict broad, a hard and soft, husband and wife cooperate tacit understanding, but for the children's moral cultivation is very adverse. No matter which parent is too harsh or too loose, if the child 's education process exposed contradiction, will bring about the side effect. Even if the other children have undeserved place, also do not tune, not to differences in exposure in front of the children, but afterwards coordination, otherwise it will reduce the education effect, is not conducive to children's growth.
在日常的家庭教育中,父母往往有意或无意地扮演了两种不同的角色——红脸与白脸,表面上看似一打一拉、一严一宽、一硬一软,夫妻配合默契,实则对孩子的道德品质培育极为不利.无论父母哪一方过于严厉或过于放纵,若在孩子的教育过程中暴露出矛盾,都会带来副作用.即使发现对方教育子女有不当之处,也不要唱反调,不要把分歧暴露在孩子面前,而是事后再协调,否则会降低教育效果,不利于孩子成长.