As the most important tool for human to communicate,language reflects the total communication at people's thinking process.communication and understanding .It is the bridge reflects society and culture of the form.Thought and language are closely linked,the language of the disclaimer was thinking,different ways of thinking and different expression of nunderstanding .In the English language,pay attention to performance ,Mandarin,care consensual.Only by understanding the different Communication of flexibility in the use of language,to overcome the cultural differences of thinking and the communication difficulties we could achieve the purpose of communication and exchanging feelings . As the most important tool for human to communicate,language reflects the total communication at people's thinking process.communication and understanding .It is the bridge reflects society and culture of the form.Thought and language are closely linked,the language of the disclaimer was thinking,different ways of thinking and different expression of nunderstanding .In the English language,pay attention to performance ,Mandarin,care consensual.Only by understanding the different Communication of flexibility in the use of language,to overcome the cultural differences of thinking and the communication difficulties we could achieve the purpose of communication and exchanging feelings .